My girlfriend, Kim always says “I love you as who you are. Does not matter whether you are fat or thin. You are ‘beautiful’ in my heart.”

Too bad, she is a female. Else, for sure, I will marry her. =P

Does look really matter? Isn’t beauty just skin deep or even piles of make up? Is appearance so important to men?

Shopping Lifestyle has got the men ‘fuss up. Let’s see what the men said.

His Say 1: “Everything else being equal, looks are definitely a bonus. She
has to look presentable at least. But then again, beauty is more than just
looks, it has to do with some X-factor as well. I know a few ‘plain-looking’
women who have more suitors than their prettier friends, because they have
incredible charisma.”– Samuel, 33, public relations executive

Winnilicious says: “I like you Samuel. Are you married?”

His Say 2: “Yes. If a man tells you otherwise, he’s a liar. Guys are still hot-blooded visual creatures, no matter what. Let a man choose between a looker and an ugly girl, see which one he picks.”– Jeremiah, 26, sales executive

Winnilicious says: “Jeremiah, though you are right. But at times, have you guys look into the mirror yourselves? Or you all don’t think that you are ugly yourselves? =.= Mostly, that is the case.”

His Say 3: “Having a kind heart and good morals is more precious. In this materialistic and superficial world, beautiful women – natural and fake – are everywhere, but nice girls are hard to come by.”– Vincent, 29, manager

Winnilicious says: “My everything is real! (cos I cannot afford any plastic) & of cos, I am kind hearted. So are you keen in me?”

His Say 4: “I’d love to say no, but looks do matter — and it’s not just us guys. Turn the table around, and not many women will bother with a second glance at fat or balding men either. Beautiful people get more attention — that’s a fact. But having said that, you’d need more than just physical beauty alone to sustain long-term relationships like marriage.”– Edwin, 27, educator

Winnilcious says: “Edwin!!! (what a name!) You are wrong. I had seen babes with balding men. So women aren’t that shallow as compared to men.”

His Say 5: “Not really. Looks are only a priority in puppy-love relationships. Love based entirely on physical attractiveness is lame — it’s only infatuation, and it won’t last for long.”– Tim, 22, medical student

Winnilicious says: “Tim, I like you. I totally agree with you. Do you mean “姐弟戀?”

His Say 6: “Looks matter to a certain degree. I’m not the type to go for extraordinary standards — she can be a plain Jane, but the fat and the ugly are off-limits for me. At the very minimum, she must have a great smile.”– Paul, 31, postgraduate student

Winnilicious says: “Well, you are no doubt right. But may I ask, you are fat and ugly?”

His Say 7: “If she’s a bimbo, I’d rather go for an average-looking but intelligent woman. Brains is more important than boobs. But if she’s got both, hey, that’s even better.”– Sonny, 35, recruitment officer

Winnilicious says: “Sonny, many a times, there is no best of both worlds.”

His Say 8: “Having exotic looks will help with the initial attraction. However, once the novelty wears off, inner beauty and depth is what will keep the flame alive.”– Jung, 30, instructor

Winnilicious says “Least, you are not shallow.”

His Say 9: “No. Character is more important than looks. Beauty will wither away with time, but virtues only grow stronger.”– David Lam, 25, systems analyst

Winnilicious says “David, I agree with you. But how will you know my character when you realise that I am so fat?”

His Say 10: “Yes. It’s only human nature to be attracted to beautiful women. Even girls check out other hot girls all the time. I would say outer appearance is a stepping stone that sets me exploring the possibility of a relationship. Her looks is just one deciding factor, I need to consider other aspects like character and common interests.”– Fredrick, 32, trader

Winnilicious says “Fredrick, okay, you are frank enough to say the truth.”

可以让我在你面前做一次的洋葱吗？

让你好好看着我内心深处是有多么地爱你。

让你看看你是我最压抑，最深处的秘密。

让你看到我的全心全意。

如果你眼神能够为我
片刻的降临
如果你能听到
心碎的声音
沉默的守护着你
沉默的等奇迹
沉默的让自己
像是空气
大家都吃着聊着笑着
今晚多开心
最角落里的我
笑得多合群
盘底的洋葱像我
永远是调味品
偷偷的看着你
偷偷的隐藏着自己
如果你愿意一层一层一层的剥开我的心
你会发现你会讶异
你是我最压抑
最深处的秘密
如果你愿意一层一层一层的剥开我的心
你会鼻酸你会流泪
只要你能听到我
看到我的全心全意

听你说你和你的他们
暧昧的空气
我和我的绝望
装得很风趣
我就样一颗洋葱
永远是配角戏
多希望能与你有一秒
专属的剧情

如果不是那镜子不像你不藏秘密
我还不肯相信没有你我的笑更美丽
那天听你在电话里略带抱歉的的关系
我嘟的一声觉得比你说分手彻底

离开你我才发现自己那爱笑的眼睛

离开你我才找回自己那爱笑的眼睛

是我不小心而已
再见到你我一定让自己
让自己坚定
再见到你我一定让自己
假装很坚定

我在向前走却像在退后
我在用想念狂欢寂寞
越快乐就越失落
爱将我们高高举起以后
再让心学会坠落
怀念这宽阔的天空
虽然那里空气很稀薄

我努力想起你笑着哭泣
让自己深爱你再学会放弃
我不想忘记你
就算可以
我宁可记得所有伤心
我努力想起你苦也没关系
用祝福和感激勇敢失去你
爱你这个决定
虽然艰辛
我不说对不起

音乐嘀嗒嘀嗒嘀嗒
舞步踢踏踢踏踢踏
每一步都是悲伤的挣扎
带着牵挂
谁都不想先停下
我穿着纯白的薄纱
跟着他旋转在灯下
知道是最后一次拥着他
日出后就应该
试着忘了要试着忘了他
我离不开他
也留不住他
心像空荡大厅
一切就要蒸发
我离不开他
风留不住沙
远去里的牵挂
是思念的时差
跟寂寞对话
我留不住他
耶噢耶
我还在想他
现在好想他好想他