Previous postings, I was talking generally about “fake friends”.

I’m not accusing anyone being fake. But have you ever ask yourself if you were ever fake?

For me, being fake applies when I got to earn my livings. No matter how much I dislike the person, I still have to pretend that I’m professional enough to handle him/ her. But still, I wouldn’t categorise him/ her into the category of friends. Neither will I accept him/ her in the famous social platform, like Facebook. Some good examples of such “friends” will be Mr Loh, Mr N, Ms SHTB etc….. That’s my style.

Well, I found a good example of fake friend. Maybe I’m wrong but it does make me wonder.

This is what was stated in MSN.

“He/ She promised not to gossip about J since he/ she doesn’t want to friend her anymore” - Okay, “friend” seems childish. Come on, we are at the age of 30. So, I guess, “friend” is wrongly used here but yet, I doubt we had found a most suitable word. =X

But here, look at what I saw in FB?

Ms J is still her friend!

So I do have some questions?

1. What is his/her motive?

2. Did he/ she use to treat me the same as Ms J?

3. Was he/she really the person I had known?

I have 1001 questions in me which I will never ever find the answers until he/ she decides to speak his/ her heart out.

Whatever it is, life still goes on with or without him/ her. It’s sad to have such friends. It’s even sadder to see such friends without admitting his/her faults and yet, portray that he/ her is the REAL victim. How sad!

Or has he/ she decided to RE-FRIEND Ms J?

It remains a mystery.