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All About Sagittarius

The Sagittarius is really a centaur — the lower half is horse, the upper half is a man. The man is holding a bow with an arrow aimed upwards toward the sky. This symbolizes the Sagittarius' drive to overcome basic animal instincts by aiming his thoughts into the divine realms of the heavens. In other words, Sagittarius is hunting for ideas and experiences that draw you into greater awareness. As such, Sagittarius tend to love adventure, travel and philosophy — all ways of extending beyond your immediate surroundings.

Sagittarius tend to aim their arrows of thought upward, being the incurable optimists of the zodiac. Sagittarius often look at the sunny side of life and the silver lining to any dark cloud. Sagittarius are honest to a fault, for you can say what's on your mind before you realize that someone's feelings might be hurt. Since the Sagittarius is part horse, there is also a connection between Sagittarius and horses, be it a love of riding or an emphasis on the most powerful part of a horse: its legs and thighs. In fact, many of Sagittarius love outdoor hiking and long distance running.

The Sagittarius motto is "It is better to know how to learn than to know." You seek knowledge and wisdom, never tiring of the quest for what is yet to come. Others enjoy being with you when you are in your outgoing and joyful mood, but you can become more sullen if you feel that your wings have been clipped. Even in a restrictive situation, however, you'll not lose hope–and it is this inspirational perspective that leads you to your greatest success.

Element: Fire
Fire signs are naturally warm. A fire gives light and heat, but it doesn't get depleted as others feed on its warmth. One candle can bring light to a room and it won't burn any faster if ten people read from its light than if there was only one. Fire doesn't plan its next move; it isn't logical. It simply is in the moment and will burn what fuel is available without judgment or forethought. For this reason fire signs can successfully rely on their intuition and survival instincts.

The fire of Sagittarius is warming, not hot — but that's because it's far away. It's like a light in the distance that reminds us why we are heading in that direction or the stars that have been used for navigation. This is the fire of inspiration whose heat can motivate the mind to reach out into the wilderness.

Ninth House: Travel
If the Third House is the House of Quick Trips, then the opposite Ninth House could be called the House of Long Distance Journeys. It's about foreign travel, higher education — for that's travel in the mind and the potential adventure that the future holds.

Key Planet: Jupiter
Jupiter is the largest planet in our solar system and as such symbolizes an expansive action. He is the king of bigger, better and more. But, of course, too much of a good thing isn't necessarily good, and Jupiter can encourage us to overspend or overindulge. Jupiter acts like a magnifying lens and can make a little opportunity look larger than life. As the key planet of Sagittarius, Jupiter encourages us to take those opportunities, to live life as an adventure and to believe in something greater than ourselves.

Sagittarius Greatest Strength: Your undying optimistic attitude

Sagittarius Possible Weakness: Glossing over problems or avoiding difficult situations

 

Sigh… I will never understand a Sagi. 

Namida no Monogatari – Chika Yuuri

How did I fall in love with you?
What can I do to make you smile?
I’m always here if you’re thinking of
The story of the tears from your eyes

moshimo negaigoto ga hitotsu kanau nara
shiawase kure ta kimi ni mouichido ai tai

Can’t you hear the voices of my heart?
I was staying here just wanna see your happiness

omoide mo himitsu mo kokoro ni shimau yo
itsu no hi ni ka kimi to mata meguri ai tai

Can’t you hear the voices of my heart?
I was staying here just wanna see your happiness

omoide mo himitsu mo kokoro ni shimau yo
itsu no hi ni ka kimi to mata meguri ai tai

Can’t you hear the voices of my heart?…

 

对的人 – 真的这么难等吗?

你问在我心中 是否还苦恼
那次受伤 否决了爱的好
谢谢你的关照 我一切都好
一个人 不算困扰
爱虽然很美妙 却不能为了寂寞 又陷了泥沼

爱要耐心等待 仔细寻找 感觉很重要
宁可空白了手 等候一次 真心的拥抱
我相信在这个世界上 一定会遇到
对的人出现在眼角

那次流过的泪 让我学习到
如何祝福 如何转身 不要
在眼泪体会到 与自己拥抱
爱不是一种需要 是一种对照
爱虽然很美妙 却不能为了寂寞 又陷了泥沼

爱要耐心等待 仔细寻找 感觉很重要
宁可空白了手 等候一次 真心的拥抱
我相信在这个世界上 一定会遇到
对的人出现

能愿意为了一份爱 付出去多少
然后得到多少并不计较
当我想清楚的时候 我就算已经准备好
放手去爱 海阔天高
喔… 耶…

爱要耐心等待 仔细寻找 感觉很重要
宁可空白了手 等候一次 真心的拥抱
我相信在世界上 一定会遇到
对的人出现

爱要耐心等待 仔细寻找 感觉很重要
宁可空白了手 等候一次 真心的拥抱
我相信在这个世界上 一定会遇到
对的人出现…

 刚刚听了这首歌,不知不决地掉下了忍了多天的眼泪。

其实,我是不想哭的,但心里总觉得不舒服。

对于他的在次出现,我是又惊又喜。 这个心情是难以用几个字来解释的。

让我用理智的心态吧 – 这一次!

所谓歌词说的, “爱要耐心等待 仔细寻找 感觉很重要 可空白了手 等候一次 真心的拥抱 我相信在世界上 一定会遇到 的人出。”

 等着吧! 是你的终究会是你的; 不是你的,你又何必去苦苦强求呢?

Have you harassed your ex today?

In a relationship, it always take 2 hands to clap. If one person stops loving the other person, it marks the end of the relationship. I always believe that if a relationship ends without anybody feeling sad or just one party feeling sad, there's really no point in trying to salvage. BUT, if the relationship ends with both parties feeling upset, it would be a different story altogether.

Letting go. It is difficult for us in so many ways and on so many levels. Yet life calls upon us to do it, over and over again. Letting go is part of our growth process. We cannot move on to the new while continuing to cling to the old. You can always remember the good times but not trying to rekindle it.

If this chapter had ended, it's time to move on to the next chapter of your life. If you continue to cling on, you would never be able to finish the whole book about life. Clinging on to your past is not healthy for both parties. You are only holding her back which is disruptive to her.

Have you harassed your ex today? Think about it…..If you had, you should stop it now……

“Letting go is never easy. But if you never let it happen, it never will.”

越爱越难过 – 吴克群

说说你为什么为什么要走
说你为何要分手
别拖求你别软弱
求你说出口分手的理由
但你却拖拖拖拖到什么时候
但你还拖拖拖拖到什么时候
如果要走却又为何停留
请你别拖拖拖大声的说出口
请你要痛就痛给我个快活
如果说你要走我不会留
我不去管以后
然后我们说清楚一句话就够
如果说你要走我不会留
我不去管以后
多么痛多么的难过
越爱越难过
do do re re mi mi re do
do do re mi do

然后连话都不说继续沉默
连朋友都没得作为了什么
然后跟别人说你其实还是爱我
就算了吧坏人我来做

 

对的人 – 戴爱玲

Somehow, this song best describes my feelings, especially the bold part. Meaningful indeed.

Meanwhile, enjoy the song. 

 

你问在我心中
是否还苦恼
那次受伤
否决了爱的好
谢谢你的关照
我一切都好
一个人不算困扰
那次流过的泪
让我学习到
如何祝福如何转身不要
在眼泪体会到
与自己拥抱
爱不是一种需要是一种对照
爱虽然很美妙
却不能为了寂寞
又陷了泥沼
爱要耐心等待
仔细寻找
感觉很重要

宁可空白了手
等候一次
真心的拥抱

我相信在这个世界上
我相信在世界上
一定会遇到
对的人出现在眼角

对的人出现
能愿意为了一份爱付出去多少
然后得到多少并不计较
当我想清楚的时候
我就算已经准备好
放手去爱
海阔天高
喔—耶—-

Ying Gwah Sia Jai

A very nice Thai song with meaningful lyrics.

Now Watching: 东山飘雨西关晴 (When Easterly Showers Fall On The Sunny West)

 

Coming from a very humble background, POON MUK HING (Ma Tak Chung) nevertheless is content with his lot. He works for the POONs of Dongshan as driver. His true identity of the eldest son of the family comes to light when he saves POON CHEUK WAH (Wong Ho Yin), the young master, in an accident. CHONG FUNG YEE (Wang Ming Chun, Liza), the first daughter-in-law in the family, has to admit unwillingly the fact that when she married into the family she was already pregnant. His true identity revealed, HING changes his name to POON CHEUK HING according to the genealogical table of the clan. The mother and son have since been locked in a seesaw struggle. YIP HEUNG CHING (Sheh Charmaine) came from an influential family in Xiguan. She starts selling congee on a boat for a living with her elder brother after their family has fallen into decline. CHING and WAH used to go out but YEE did all she could to separate them. Later, CHING opens a teahouse with the help and support of HING. Spontaneously, love blossoms between them. Not long afterwards, the Poon family runs into a lot of troubles. YEE and WAH are unable to handle them at all. HING seizes the opportunity to restore the prestige of the family. For the sake of the benefit of POONs, he is prepared to sacrifice his relationships with other family members, his love as well as his friends. By doing so, he also involves himself in a never-ending bloody battle of power.

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爱情是什么东西!!!

(作者)  老鼠爱小米

开始的开始总是甜蜜的。

后来就有了厌倦、习惯、背弃、寂寞、绝望和冷笑。

曾经渴望与一个人长相厮守,后来,多么庆幸自己离开了?

曾几何时,在一段短暂的时光里,我们以为自己深深的爱着的一个人。

后来,我们才知道,那不是爱,那只是对自己说谎。

你以为不可失去的人,原来并非不可失去。

你流干了眼泪,自有另一个人逗你欢笑。

你伤心欲绝,然后发现不爱你的人,根本不值得你为之伤心。

今天回首,何尝不是一个喜剧?情尽时,自有另一番新境界

所有的悲哀也不过是历史

爱情总是想象比现实美丽,相逢如是,告别亦如是。

我们以为爱得很深、很深,

来日岁月,会让你知道,

它不过很浅、很浅。

最深最重的爱,必须和时日一起成长。

因为爱情的缘故,两个陌生人可以突然熟络到睡在同一张床上。

然而,相同的两个人,在分手时却说,我觉得你越来越陌生。

爱情将两个人由陌生变成熟悉,又由熟悉变成陌生。

爱情正是一个将一对陌生人变成情侣,

又将一对情侣变成陌生人的游戏。

相信爱情可以令一个人改变,是年轻的好处,

也是年轻的悲哀。

浪子永远是浪子。

令男人改变的,也许是上帝的爱或者佛祖的慈悲,

但绝对不会是女人。

最不宜结婚的是浪子,最适宜结婚的也是浪子。

往往不是女人改变一个浪子,而是女人在浪子想改变的时候刚好出现。

男人的一生,不过对女人做两件事:

超乎她想象的好和超乎她想象的坏。

女人用他的好来原谅他的坏。

如果有一天他们不能在一起,不是他太坏,而是她太好。

我们一生之中,要牢记和要忘记的东西一样多。

记忆存在细胞里,在身体里面,与肉体永不分离,

要摧毁它,等于玉石俱焚。

然而,有些事情必须忘记,忘记痛苦,

忘记最爱的人对你的伤害,只好如此。

时间会让你了解爱情,时间能够证明爱情,也能够把爱推翻。

没有一种悲伤是不能被时间减轻的。

如果时间不可以令你忘记那些不该记住的人,

我们失去的岁月又有什么意义?

如果所有的悲哀、痛苦、失败都是假的,那该多好?

可惜,世上有很多假情假义,

自己的痛苦、失败、悲哀,却偏偏总是真的。

他纵有千个优点,但他不爱你,

这是一个你永远无法说服自己去接受的缺点。

一个人最大的缺点不是自私、多情、野蛮、任性,

而是偏执地爱一个不爱自己的人。

暗恋是一种自毁,是一种伟大的牺牲。

暗恋,甚至不需要对象,我们不过站在河边,

看着自己的倒影自怜,却以为自己正爱着别人。

爱情和情歌一样,最高境界是余音袅袅。

最凄美的不是报仇雪恨,而是遗憾。

最好的爱情,必然有遗憾。

那遗憾化作余音袅袅,长留心上。

最凄美的爱,不必呼天抢地,只是相顾无言。

失望,有时候,也是一种幸福。

因为有所期待,才会失望。

遗憾,也是一种幸福。

因为还有令你遗憾的事情。

追寻爱情,然后发现,爱,从来就是一件千回百转的事。

最浪漫的爱是得不到的。

最浪漫的情话,是当哪个已经跟你分了手的人打电话来问:“你好吗?”

你稀松平常地回答:“我很好。”而其实你还爱着他,你一点也不好。

男人伪装坚强,只是害怕被女人发现他软弱。

女人伪装幸福,只是害怕被男人发现她伤心。

爱情,有时候,是一件令人沉沦的事情,

所谓理智和决心,不过是可笑的自我安慰的说话.

爱情从来都是一种束缚,追求爱情并不等于追求自由。

自由可贵,我们用这最宝贵的东西换取爱情。

因为爱一个人,明知会失去自由,也甘愿作出承诺。

诺言是用来跟一切的变幻抗衡。

变幻原是永恒,我们唯有用永恒的诺言制约世事的变幻。

不能永恒的,便不是诺言。

诺言是很贵的,如果你尊重自己的人格。