The end of a love affair – By Kim
If there's anything I've learnt during my time on this planet, is that, sex does not equal to love. Yet infidelity which often involves sex has always been accepted as 'evidence' of a 'betrayal of love' while all the time it involves no love where the betrayal is concerned – but lust on the other hand, is in abundance.
Relationships such as those that began as affairs, frequently due to the nature of how they began, will always have some seeds of distrust. The new spouse will always wonder if there is another affair going on, if their partner really loves them, or do they love them just for what they can get out of them. Many a times, once the participants of an affair legalize their 'affair' (once that couple marries), they find that their relationship, along with their sex life, changes a lot from the time of the affair. A lot of the excitement is suddenly gone. This can set the stage for the disloyal spouse from relationship number one to start looking again, and they are justified once again, because spouse number two is not delivering the goods that they promised.
"Nothing will come of nothing. " – William Shakespeare